EMDR Therapy in Dallas

& Online in 40 States

What is EMDR Therapy?

EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing) therapy helps your brain reprocess memories, emotions, and beliefs that are stuck in the past, so they no longer feel overwhelming or control your present.

When you experience something distressing or traumatic, your brain and nervous system naturally try to process the experience and make sense of it. But sometimes, especially in traumatic or highly emotional situations, that memory gets “stuck” rather than being processed and stored in a way that makes it feel like a past event.

Because of this, when something reminds you of the event—even years later—you experience it as if it is happening right now. Your emotions, thoughts, and even physical sensations react as if you are back in that moment, rather than seeing the situation through your present-day, more “resourced” perspective.

How EMDR Works

EMDR helps your brain reprocess these stuck memories, emotions, and beliefs so they can be stored in a more adaptive, less distressing way. Through a structured process using dual attention stimuli (eye movements, tapping, sound tones), your brain brings the experience into the working memory, where it can be processed in a more adaptive way and stored into your long-term memory as part of your past.

Through EMDR therapy, you will:
✔ Reduce the emotional intensity of painful memories
✔ Shift negative beliefs about yourself to more adaptive, self-supportive ones
✔ Experience a greater sense of safety and emotional control in daily life

For example, many people who have experienced trauma hold deep-seated beliefs like:

  • “I’m not safe.”

  • “I am powerless.”

  • “It was my fault.”

  • “I’m not good enough.”

EMDR helps update these beliefs to more adaptive, self-compassionate truths, such as:

  • “That was a dangerous situation, but I am safe now.”

  • “I did the best I could with what I knew at the time.”

  • “I have the strength to move forward.”

By helping your brain reprocess past experiences from your present perspective, EMDR allows you to release the emotional burden and move forward with greater resilience and confidence.

Who Can Benefit from EMDR Therapy?

  • EMDR is one of the most effective treatments for PTSD and Complex PTSD (C-PTSD).

    PTSD occurs when a distressing event remains "stuck" in the nervous system, leading to flashbacks, nightmares, avoidance, and hypervigilance. C-PTSD, often caused by repeated trauma over time, can lead to difficulties in relationships and changes in how you d see yourself in addition to the core symptoms of PTSD. 

    ✔ EMDR helps the brain reprocess traumatic memories safely, reducing emotional distress and bringing a sense of closure.

    ✔ It also shifts old beliefs like “I am powerless” or “I will never be safe.”

    ✔ Clients with C-PTSD often benefit from EMDR combined with Internal Family Systems (IFS) therapy to heal wounded parts of the self.

  • Improve Relationships & Self-Esteem by Reprocessing Early Attachment Trauma

    Early attachment experiences shape how we relate to others, regulate emotions, and see ourselves. When childhood trauma or inconsistent caregiving disrupts this process, it can lead to fears of abandonment, difficulty trusting others, and low self-worth.

    EMDR helps reprocess early attachment wounds, updating beliefs such as:
    🔸 “I am unlovable.” → “I am worthy of love and support.”
    🔸 “People will leave me.” → “I can have safe, stable relationships.”
    🔸 “I have to take care of everyone.” → “I am allowed to have my own needs.”

    By shifting these deeply held beliefs, EMDR allows for healthier relationships, increased self-compassion, and improved emotional security in adulthood.

  • Change the Core Beliefs That Fuel Anxiety

    Generalized anxiety can stem from unconscious fears about safety, separation, or self-worth. Even when life circumstances change, these fears persist because the nervous system is still responding to outdated beliefs from past experiences. EMDR is especially helpful for deep thinkers who excel in logical reasoning and may not have responded to more traditional approaches for anxiety, like cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT).

    EMDR helps rewire the brain’s fear response by addressing beliefs such as:
    🔸 “The world is unsafe.” → “I can handle challenges and protect myself.”
    🔸 “People will leave me.” → “I am capable of forming secure relationships.”
    🔸 “I have to be perfect to be accepted.” → “I am enough as I am.”

    By resolving these fears at their root, EMDR can help reduce chronic worry, tension, and avoidance behaviors that interfere with daily life.

  • Overcome Persistent Self-Doubt and the Fear of Being “Found Out”

    Many high-achieving individuals struggle with imposter syndrome, feeling like they don’t truly deserve their success or fearing they’ll be exposed as a fraud. This often stems from past experiences of feeling inadequate, unseen, or constantly needing to prove oneself.

    EMDR can help you:
    ✔ Identify where these beliefs originated (e.g., childhood expectations, school experiences, or workplace dynamics)
    ✔ Reprocess the emotions tied to feeling “not enough”
    ✔ Reinforce a more balanced belief in your abilities and accomplishments

    Instead of constantly feeling like you have to “earn” your worth, EMDR allows you to internalize a sense of confidence and self-acceptance.

  • Shift Deep-Rooted Patterns of Hopelessness

    Persistent depression—lasting two years or more—is often reinforced by longstanding negative self-perceptions and unprocessed emotional pain. Even when external circumstances improve, the brain may still operate from a place of self-doubt, worthlessness, or despair.

    EMDR can help by:
    ✔ Reprocessing early experiences that shaped negative self-perceptions
    ✔ Updating beliefs like “I am powerless” or “Nothing will ever change”
    ✔ Strengthening internal resources to support emotional resilience

    By targeting the underlying beliefs that fuel chronic depression, EMDR can help reduce emotional numbness, increase motivation, and restore hope.

  • Regain Control Over Avoided Situations That Interfere with Daily Life

    Phobias are irrational fears that trigger intense anxiety, leading to avoidance behaviors that disrupt daily life. Even if you logically know a situation isn’t dangerous, your brain may still react as if it is.

    EMDR helps desensitize these fear responses so you can regain control over:
    Claustrophobia (fear of enclosed spaces)
    Fear of injections (medical phobia)
    Vomiting phobia (emetophobia)
    Fear of choking
    Fear of flying, heights, or public speaking

    By reprocessing feared situations, EMDR can help decrease emotional distress and avoidance, making it easier to live life more freely.

  • Process Unresolved Emotions

    Grieving is a natural process, but when emotions remain intensely painful for a year or more, or you feel stuck in guilt, regret, or longing, it may be complicated grief.

    Symptoms of complicated grief EMDR can help with:
    🔸 Persistent thoughts of “If only I had done something differently.”
    🔸 Guilt over what was said or unsaid before the loss
    🔸 Feeling disconnected from others due to overwhelming sorrow

    EMDR helps reprocess the painful aspects of loss so that memories can be honored without prolonged emotional suffering.

  • Heal Emotional Wounds from Distressing Medical Experiences

    Medical trauma occurs when a past medical event caused extreme fear, helplessness, or loss of control. Even if the body has physically healed, the emotional and psychological impact may linger.

    Examples of medical trauma EMDR can help with:
    Traumatic childbirth experiences
    Surgeries or ICU stays that felt overwhelming
    Painful or unexpected medical procedures
    Being dismissed or invalidated by healthcare providers

    By processing these experiences, EMDR can restore a sense of safety and control when facing future medical situations.

  • Rewire How Your Brain Processes Pain to Reduce Suffering

    Chronic pain isn’t just physical—it has deep emotional and neurological components. The brain often amplifies pain signals when there’s unprocessed distress, making the pain feel worse and harder to manage.

    EMDR can help by:
    ✔ Reprocessing how pain is stored in the nervous system
    ✔ Reducing emotional suffering tied to physical discomfort
    ✔ Addressing past traumas or stressors that worsen pain perception

    This doesn’t mean EMDR “erases” pain—but it can significantly change how your brain interprets and responds to it, reducing overall suffering.

  • Chronic illness can feel like a betrayal by your own body. Whether you're navigating an autoimmune disorder, persistent pain, or another long-term condition, the emotional toll can be just as challenging as the physical symptoms. Many people experience:
    Grief and frustration over limitations in daily life
    Guilt or shame about needing support or rest
    Anxiety and uncertainty about the future
    Feeling disconnected from or at war with their body

    EMDR helps reprocess these emotions and shift limiting beliefs such as:
    🔸 “My body is broken.” → “My body is doing its best to heal.”
    🔸 “I have no control over my health.” → “I can take meaningful steps to care for myself.”
    🔸 “I am a burden to others.” → “I deserve care and compassion.”

    By reducing emotional suffering and fostering self-compassion, EMDR allows individuals with chronic medical conditions to develop a more accepting and supportive relationship with their body.

  • Reprocess the Themes & Emotions Playing Out in Your Dreams

    Recurring nightmares often reflect unresolved fears, emotions, or beliefs that the mind is still trying to process.

    Common nightmare themes EMDR can address:
    Fear of separation (e.g., dreams of abandonment, being lost)
    Fear of failure (e.g., test anxiety dreams, public embarrassment)
    Being trapped or helpless (e.g., paralysis, unable to escape)

    By working directly with the underlying emotions and beliefs fueling the nightmares, EMDR helps reduce their frequency and emotional intensity.

Why Choose Tella Psychology for EMDR Therapy?

  • Expert-Led Therapy – Our therapists have completed EMDR basic training through the EMDR Institute and advanced training in EMDR 2.0, EMDR-IFS integration, EMDR for chronic pain, and EMDR for groups.

  • Trauma-Informed & Personalized – We can integrate Internal Family Systems (IFS) and other approaches to meet your unique healing needs.

  • Safe & Supportive Care – We take a client-centered approach, ensuring you feel in control of your healing journey.

  • Inclusive Environment – We are affirming of all cultures, races, religions, sexual orientations, and gender identities.

  • Flexible Options – We offer in-person sessions in Dallas and online therapy in 40 states. We can also accomodate requests for extended sessions (90 minutes) or intensives (half-day, full day, or multi-day).

At Tella Psychology, we understand the complexities of trauma and healing. Our approach is designed to empower you with tools that create lasting change.

What to Expect from EMDR Therapy

Your first session will focus on understanding your needs and creating a safe, supportive environment. From there, we’ll guide you through the phases of EMDR therapy, ensuring you feel prepared and comfortable every step of the way.

Many clients report feeling a reduction in emotional distress after just a few sessions. With consistent work, EMDR can help you achieve lasting relief and greater emotional freedom.

Take the Next Step Toward Healing

You don’t have to stay stuck in the pain of the past. EMDR therapy at Tella Psychology can help you process trauma, shift negative beliefs, and reclaim the life you deserve.

Schedule a consultation today to learn how EMDR can help you. Let’s start this journey together.

FAQs

Does EMDR involve reliving traumatic experiences?

No, EMDR helps you process distressing memories in a way that feels manageable and safe. You do not have to relive traumatic experiences in detail, and there are options for reprocessing without sharing specific details with your therapist. Throughout the process, you remain in control.

Is EMDR effective when delivered online?

Yes! EMDR is highly effective in virtual therapy settings. Research has shown that telehealth EMDR produces similar results to in-person EMDR for PTSD, anxiety, and other conditions.

✔ Online EMDR allows you to access trauma therapy from the comfort of your home.
✔ Some people feel safer processing trauma in a familiar environment.
✔ Studies suggest that dual attention stimuli (eye movements or tapping) works just as well virtually as in person.

How many sessions will I need?

The number of sessions varies depending on your goals and history. Most clients notice progress within 6–12 sessions.

How does EMDR work with telehealth?

Online EMDR uses secure, HIPAA-compliant telehealth platforms to guide you through the therapy process. It follows the same structured approach as in-person EMDR, with the added benefit of accessibility from anywhere.

✔ We use specialized HIPAA-compliant software for dual attention stimuli, allowing your therapist to guide eye movements, auditory tones, and visual stimuli during EMDR sessions.
✔ Your therapist monitors your responses in real-time to ensure you feel supported throughout the process.
✔ You’ll receive preparation techniques for grounding and emotional regulation before and after processing to help you stay emotionally balanced.

This ensures a safe, effective EMDR experience, whether in person or online.

Is EMDR effective for non-trauma concerns?

Yes! EMDR has been shown to help with anxiety, phobias, chronic stress, and more.

How do you manage dissociation in EMDR therapy?

Dissociation is a common protective response to trauma, and EMDR therapy is designed to address it safely.


✔ If you experience dissociation, we take extra steps to ensure that therapy is grounding and manageable.
✔ We incorporate resourcing techniques like safe place imagery and containment strategies before trauma processing.
✔ EMDR 2.0 may be helpful for individuals with higher dissociation levels to enhance processing efficiency while maintaining emotional stability.
✔ Your therapist will closely monitor dissociation responses and adjust the approach as needed to keep sessions safe.